Encouragement makes all the Difference

Dante Bartiel Rossetti, the famous 19th-century poet and artist, was once approached by an elderly man. The old fellow had some sketches and drawings that he wanted Rossetti to look at and tell him if they were any good, or if they, at least, showed potential talent.

Rossetti looked them over carefully. After the first few he knew that they were worthless, showing not the least sign of artistic talent. But Rossetti was a kind man and he told the elderly man as gently as possible that the pictures were without much value and showed little talent. He was sorry, but he could not lie to the man.

The visitor was disappointed, but seemed to expect Rossetti’s judgment. He then apologized for taking up Rossetti’s time, but would he just look at a few more drawings—these done by a young art student. Rossetti looked over the second batch of sketches and immediately enthused over the talent they revealed. ‘These,” he said, “ah, these are good.”

This young man, whoever he is, has great talent. He should be given every help and encouragement in his career as an artist. He has a great future, if he will work hard and stick with it.”

Rossetti could see that the old fellow was deeply moved. “Who is this fine young artist?” he asked. “Your son?”

“No,” said the old fellow sadly “It is me, 40 years ago. If only I had heard your praise then…   For you see, I got discouraged and gave up too soon.”  Source: Bits & Pieces, March 30, 1995

We all need regular praise & encouragement; and it costs so little to give.  It can make a real difference in someone’s life. So go ahead, give a little… and Change a Life!

Our chief want is someone who will inspire us to be what we know we could be. -Ralph Waldo Emerson

Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for. – Epicurus

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Thanks for the share, WK!